Thursday, November 17, 2005

The Case of the Missing Suitcase

My mother came into town yesterday for a long visit and I picked her up from the airport. As we are waiting at baggage claim C25 we catch up, wait for her luggage, decide where we want to have dinner, wait for her luggage, talk about my family and wait, and we wait some more. Next thing you know there are two lonely suitcases in the carousel and everyone is gone except for this couple with two young kids and my mothers suitcase is nowhere to be found. Luckily there is a baggage desk right next to C25 so I asked the guy (who I think was from Nigeria b/c of his accent)and he points to the carousel and asks me "Is that your suit case?" I look at it, then at him and I say "No" as if he had just asked the dumbest question in the world. So the search begins. 15 minutes later my mother and I are snacking on some chips and drinking a diet coke and he comes up and says "I am sorry sir but we cannot find your suitcase we will continue to look for it, do you want to come back?" and since I don't live so close to the airport we wait...and wait...he comes back with a big smile on his face and he tells me they found my mother suitcase. Guess where it was? Go on, Guess.

It was spinning on the carousel the whole time. The whole time. The same suitcase he asked about earlier. So I looked at the guy apologetically, took the suit case, and we left the airport embarrassed but laughing all the way to the restaurant.

It turns out my mother forgot she had borrowed my dads suitcase because hers was to small. It was very funny.

Wednesday, November 16, 2005

Work It

I was running late this morning because I didn't have a good nights rest. I kept having a dream that I don't care to retell (and no, it wasn't a dirty dream). But anyway, as I am rushing in my building I am putting on my suit coat and my security guard tells me "Looking Good. Looking Good. Work It. Alright!"

What does that mean? Have I become so gay that even my security guard knows it? Does it mean anything?

I thought it was funny, I smiled and said "Thanks".

It's the little things

I am so proud of myself! Last night I was driving around running errands and there the only place I could park was on the street to so I had to attempt parallel parking. Normally if I have to parallel park I either keep driving until I find a better parking space or I pay to park OR who ever is in the car with me parks my car. Not yesterday. I was in a hurry and had to be somewhere else so instead of driving around I paralleled park without any coaching or without any embarrassing situations. It probably took me a little longer than most but I was proud never the less.
I freaking paralleled park!

Sarah...do you remember our Sears Driving School days? Would you ever have thought that I would be capable of such thing?

Monday, November 14, 2005

Studying, Shootings, and Weekend Update

I don't really have much to say, I didn't do much this weekend other than study so it was rather uneventful. I went to a little dinner gathering on Friday in FW and had a good time. I think I was sitting next to one of my friends ex boyfriends but I am not really sure, we talked most of the night and by the end of the night everyone thought we were flirting...No, not really...we were just having a really good conversation.

I had two meetings on Saturday for a nonprofit...I don't normally talk to much about this part of my life just because I don't really know what to say or how to say it. Being the president of a nonprofit is a lot of work. I will leave it at that.

There was a shooting three blocks down from me on Saturday. Scary isn't it? Some kids were driving by and they shot at a house where a black couple and their small child(ren) live. It wasn't gang related (I don't think we have gangs in our neighborhood) so I was a little confused on why anyone would want to shoot at the home of a couple with young children. One of my neighbors thinks it was racially motivated.
I passed by the house and there were a lot of HUGE bullet holes. I don't know anything about guns but I would think the guns they used must have been powerful.
I don't think anyone was hurt but I can't image disliking anyone or a group of people so much that I would want to hurt them. Not to long ago someone I know told me he hated me...I would be lying if I said it didn't hurt a little at the moment but that didn't last very long. I can't expect everyone to like me, I was more shocked by the public, immature and childish way in which it was done. Anyway, back to my story... I can't imagine disliking anyone so much that I would want to hurt them.
Thinking of this event made me think of the KKK and the march against Proposition 2 in Austin and how their hatred has hurt so many people. It made me think of the countless killings each year that happen around the world because of differences in ideology. The countless of lives that are cut short because someone hated so much they were able to take someone's life.
Next time you find yourself using the word hate think of the hate groups that use this word as part of their vocabulary and the groups that have become associated with this word. Do you really want anything to do with that?

Friday, November 11, 2005

Sentimental Fool


Sentimental Fool
Originally uploaded by kai7710.

I have been cleaning my house and I have come to the conclusion that I am a sentimental fool. I keep so many things that remind me of good times...bad times...and everything in between.

While I was cleaning I threw out so much that I filled my recycling bin and my trash can with stuff that I wanted to keep at one point.
The heart is an example of one of those things. This heart was given to me by one of my good friends,

  • Kerry
  • . She gave it to me along with a black and white tiger that said "I am wild about you" and it is made out of starburst wrappers. Isn't it cute?

    I probably should have thrown it out but I decided to keep it in one of my boxes that I am putting in storage. I don't get to see
  • Kerry
  • anymore and the fact that she cared enough to make this for me means a lot to me. That is the problem with wanting to clean my house and unclutter it a little, everything has sentimental value or I wouldn't have kept it

    Big Mistake

    Do you guys watch Sex in the City? Did you watch the episode where Carrie is trying to get over Big (I know, she is always trying to get over Big)and she calls up her fuck buddy and thinks she could possible build a relationship and invites him to dinner only to realize they have nothing to in common?

    Well, I made a similar mistake last night. I went to see a play with some friends in Fort Worth and I invited an old "friend". I was running terrible late so we grabbed a quick bite to eat and the conversation was just awkward. He is a nice guy but is just not for me I guess. He has a little to much attitude and I don't think he realizes he has attitude. On top of that he is lacking some social skills. He was falling asleep at the play, how embarrassing is that? I finally asked him to go outside.

    Oh, by the way. The play was great.

    Tuesday, November 08, 2005

    What is wrong with you?

    Actually, what is wrong with me? As I have mentioned in previous post, I have a lot more free time at work at my new job than I use to at my old one so I when I get bored I surf the net and I read other peoples blogs. I have found some really interesting blogs out there but there is one problem. Nobody ever updates their blogs so I have nothing to read while I am bored.

    What is wrong with you guys? Why don't you update your blog for me so I can be entertained?

    Hopefully I won't be bored for to long, I am being placed in a special project this week that should take a lot of my time. I love the project environment, everything is critical and there is little room for mistake. Stress...how I love thee.

    I hope you guys are having a blessed day. (A lady at work use to say that....do you remember her Kerry?)

    Monday, November 07, 2005

    Cesar Needs

    As I was surfing the net today during work I came across
  • Sam's
  • blog with a meme. So in my infinite boredom I tried it out.

    Here are the instructions...Visit
  • Google.com
  • , put your first name and the word needs in quotations (e.g., "Cesar needs" ) in the search box, and then click the Google Search button. Write down the top 10 results.

    01. Cesar needs Care
    02. Cesar needs Your Help!
    Cesareasr needs a Pal
    04. Cesar needs someone to refresh his memory on his training and keep him active.
    05. Cesar needs to be deported back to Spain
    06. Cesar - needs help!
    07. Cesar needs your feedback
    08. Cesar needs to work on its timing.
    09. Cesar needs to walk a delicate line while addressing the problem.
    10. Cesar needs to improve in the second half

    Two out of ten say I need help. I would totally agree.

    Friday, November 04, 2005

    Klutz

    Have I mentioned that I have become a total and complete klutz? One of my friends said that it could be because of my lack of sleep...I want to believe that.

    Yesterday, I had a huge red stain on the back of my shirt so I was forced to walk around with my suit jacket every where I went. I have also been spilling food all over myself when I go out to lunch.

    Today...Today of all days!!! I ripped my pants...right on the side by my pocket. You can see my underwear...It is huge...I can't go home because it is not even noon...so I am going to stick it out here for a few more hours, close the door to my office and avoid human contact at all cost.

    I use to have such great eye hand coordination.

    Thursday, November 03, 2005

    Condo Bylaws

    My real estate agent (who is a total and complete hottie) dropped off my paper work for the condo I put a bid on yesterday and I don't think I can move into a place that places so many restrictions on how you live your life.
    Here are a few of the restrictions listed on the bylaws:

    1. I can't have a waterbed in the condo...it is a structural hazard.
    2. I can't carry on any immoral, improper, unlawful or offensive activities.
    3. I can't keep horses, cows, hogs, sheep, goats ducks, chicken or turkeys.

    Now, I can live with 1 and 3. I hate attribute and my place will be way to small to have and cows BUT how am I suppose to live my life without being able to carry on immoral or unlawful activity? I am just completely lost, I may call the whole deal off.

    No, not really. I love the place. It is small but it is just me so I don't need the three bedroom house I am living in now. As it is, I only use one of the bedrooms, one of the bathrooms, the living room and the kitchen. The rest of the house goes unused.

    As soon as I have pictures I will post them. I am going to have some minor work done to it before I move in :) I can't wait. It has TWO huge patios that will be great for entertaining.

    Just Like Me

    During one of my meditation or yoga classes I learned to play a game called "Just Like Me". I normally play this game when I am stuck in traffic or when I am waiting in line. Now that I am driving to Dallas for work everyday and I am stuck in traffic for an hour or an hour and a half I get to play it a lot more often.

    This morning I was stuck in traffic for an hour and a half because of two accidents off of 20 and 67.

    So here is how you play...while sitting in traffic you look at the person in the car next to yours and you say "Just Like Me he/she is in a hurry to get to work" or "Just Like Me he/she feels abandoned by (insert name of ex-boyfriend here)". The point of the game is to express your feelings openly and out loud (to yourself) by projecting your feelings onto someone else. Sometimes you may feel a certain way but until you actually express your feelings out loud it doesn't really hit you how you actually feel about it.

    I really enjoy playing this game, you should give it a try.

    I have great news!!! I may not be making the drive to Dallas anymore...I may actually be living in Dallas soon. I placed a contract on a condo last night, hopefully they will accept my offer and I can move around Thanksgiving. All I have to do now is find renters for my house in Fort Worth.

    Monday, October 31, 2005

    Addictions & Meditation

    I went to a 3 hour lecture on meditation this weekend. A zen monastery close to my house had a visiting nun from Canada and when they have guest they usually have a reception to allow the community to hear the thoughts of the honored guest. I can't remember this lady's name but she was very interesting. Her main focus was on meditation, of course, but more specifically it was about how to use meditation to overcome addictions. Normally when we think of addictions we think of alcohol, drugs, smoking, and those sorts of things but she included addictions such as self loathing, over eating, hatred of others, negative thoughts, etc. It was so interesting and very revealing. She showed us how to spot these addictions in our own personality, how to acknowledge these addictions as we are doing them, and what to do if we want to stop.

    I discovered that my addictions are:
    1. Negative Thoughts
    2. Eating
    3. Shopping
    4. Sleeping

    She made the analogy of an addiction being a bad itch, the more you scratch it the more it itches. So, I am sure my addictions will get worse before it gets better.

    Most of us don't normally take the time to hear ourselves think. Spending three hours in a monastery and being at peace with yourself and with those around you is such a wonderful experience. I use to go a lot on Saturday mornings for the meditation lecture and to meditate for an hour but I stopped going several months ago. I am now going to make an effort to go at least once a month and spend sometime by myself.

    Sunday, October 30, 2005

    If You Love GOD, Say No to Halloween


    If You Love GOD, Say No to Halloween
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    This flier was left on my door on Sunday October the 30th.

    Friday, October 28, 2005

    Smelly Candle Lady

    There is a lady two doors down from my boss’s office that has a candle on all of the time. It is the worst candle smell ever. It is one of those .99 cent store candles that use cheap scented oil and even cheaper wax. I don’t know how to describe the scent other than cheap and oily. It is horrible.

    I think I mentioned before that we are running out of room in our building so there are conference rooms with 3 to 4 people in them and Smelly Candle Lady shares an office with another lady. I don’t know how the other lady stands it, if it was me I would have already asked her to turn it off. Maybe I should drop off a good candle on her desk and put everyone around her out of their misery.

    I walked by her office about 15 minutes ago and I can still smell the candle. It is horrible.

    KB - do you remember how you felt when you sat next to Bad Perfume Lady? Well, it is 100 times worse.

    Monday, October 24, 2005

    Rosa Parks, civil rights heroine, is dead

    It has been reported that Rosa Parks died earlier today. May she rest in peace and may we all accomplish and build a legacy half as great as hers.

    http://www.freep.com/news/latestnews/pm6901_20051024.htm

    To Much Fun


    To Much Fun
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Someone had to much fun this weekend.

    There is nothing worse than throwing out empty bottles of alcohol after a night of drinking and realizing that you are a drunk.

    Boy or Girl


    Boy or Girl
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    This is Kate and Kate's owners have a question on her gender.

    This weekend I was at my sister’s house and she was telling me that she is taking Kate to the vet find out if Kate is a boy or a girl.

    Is it me or is it obvious? I could not stop laughing, has she not seen her cat? Are they blind?

    What do you think?


    (I know the cat should have been neutered by now...that will also happen on Monday)

    Friday, October 21, 2005

    Pictures of My Life

    I am going to start de-cluttering my house, actually I have already started, and I have found items that make me wonder what I was thinking when I bought them. As I find new items I am going to post them on my blog. I don't think I will find anything embarrassing, I think I threw all of that out a few years ago when my mother was staying with me for a few months.

    I have a lot of crap I use to buy at the P1 sample sale. While you are at the sale you just put things in the bag, you really don't have time to figure out what it is or what you will use it for so you just grab and bag. I am sure I have a lot of things in my closets that I never intended to use but I felt bad getting rid of them because I had paid money for them.

    Is there anything in your house that you would be embarrassed to have someone else find? Or do you own something but are you not sure why you have it?

    When you moved, did you find anything interesting?

    China Town


    China Town
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    This is the entrance to China Town in San Francisco.

    Coit Tower


    Coit Tower
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    The tower in the background is Coit Tower, from the top you can see all of SF and the bay. It is beautiful.

    Protesters


    Protesters
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Once a month the people of San Francisco take to the streets in thier bikes to protest. They congest traffic and for about 30 minutes all you can hear is honking.
    I love these people.

    Lombard Street


    Lombard Street
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    On to San Francisco...this is Lomard street, it is the worlds most crooked street.

    Little Tokyo


    Little Tokyo
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    We went to Little Tokyo and we came across a festival they were having. I am not sure what the drummers are called but they were amazing.

    Disney Center in LA


    Disney Center in LA
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Isn't it beautiful?

    Chinese Theater


    Chinese Theater
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    These are pictures of my trip to Los Angeles with Chico.

    Monday, October 17, 2005

    Work

    I think I have mentioned that I never see anyone where I work now. I spend most of my day in my office in the corner of a building and nobody ever passes by my door. My team mates are in a different building that is literally located a block away so I try not to go to their building unless I really need to. It's a lonely existence but I like it...sometimes.

    Anyway, I never see anyone over here, I just hear voices and the occational "That fucking son of a bitch!" or "FUCK" or "SHIT" or some guy saying "Beth did you pull the deposition for the ______ case?" So I either keep my door closed most of the time or I have my ear phones on.

    Anyway, there is a guy up here that has a voice that gives me the chills, in a good way of course. I can hear him talking in his deep voice. His deep sexy voice. I have no clue what he looks like but I imagine him to be around 6 feet tall, with piercing blue eyes that let me look into his soul, brown hair, and looks that would stop traffic. Doesn't he sound dreamy?

    One of these days I am going to find out who he is and ask him to marry me.

    All Systems Down

    Most of the systems I work with or think I work with are down this morning at work. For a technology company they seem to have these issues very often. Anyway so I had to options 1. Read the Regulations or 2. Kill time online. I obviously choose the latter.
    I didn't do much this weekend. The only productive thing that I can think of is installing my wireless network at home yesterday. I am not very technical and I figured I would need help installing it but it was as the instructions claimed to be "Easy as 1, 2, 3.".

    I was feeling kind of down because of all of the things going on in my world and because of occurrences of last week so I did drink a bit more than I should have. But other than that I had a pretty uneventful weekend.

    I am considering going on vacation at the end of this month to California but I am still not sure I want to spend the money. I just need to get away for a while and clear my head.

    If I don't talk or see you guys, I hope you have a GREAT week.

    Tuesday, October 11, 2005

    I am not one to judge, but

    people at my new office don't really care about how they look when they leave their house in the morning. I am not saying I look like a super model when I come to work but I at least have pressed clothes on. Some of these people look like they rolled out of bed and decided to come to work.
    I am so glad I am so glad the area I am in right now has a business professional dress code or I may end up looking like the rest of these people.

    At my old job people use to dress up to go to work, it was like a freaking fashion show every day. Here it is the complete opposite. That will take some getting use to.

    Monday, October 10, 2005

    Damn! The boy is HOT!

    Did anyone catch the Oprah show tonight with Ricky Martin? Damn! The Boy is HOT!. I am going to run out and buy the CD tomorrow.

    Chico,
    Did you record it? I want the show. Do you have it?

    Sunday, October 09, 2005

    My First Week on the New Job

    I started my new job on the 5th of October and I love it so far. The commute is not as bad as I thought it was going to be and I am still figuring out new shortcuts to avoid traffic.

    I am still not entirely sure what my new company does. I know what I will be doing and how it affects other areas of the company but I am not sure what those other areas are.

    My first few days were spent doing training and getting to know everyone I will be working with. My group is in one building and I am in a completely different building so training hasn't been very convenient. I can't wait for them to let me loose so I can stay in my office all day long.

    Speaking of offices, did I mention my office is HUGE? I am on the same floor as some of the big wigs of the company and the legal team and they all have huge offices. I have already been warned that my set up is temporary until they figure out what building my team will be working from. My department is fairly new (6 months old) so we are still in limbo.

    I think I am going to love it here.

    My favorite new website

    I found a website that I think is just awesome. The website is called
  • PostSecret
  • and people send in post cards with their secrets on them. I am thinking about submitting a few of my own such as "I am gay and nobody knows it" or "I secretly wish today was Wednesday". But seriously take a look at it, it is a great site.

    Monday, September 05, 2005

    I am a prisoner in my own home (help)

    I have a baby lizard living in my home and I am terrified. Every time I walk through the kitchen it dashes across the room and sends me screaming and running like a little girl and I don't know what to do. I know I shouldn't be afraid of a tiny defenseless animal but it always catches me off guard. I can't kill it because that would just be wrong but I don't want it living with me. Doesn't it miss his/her mamma? Doesn't it want to go back home?

    If you have any good lizard catching tips let me know.

    Welcome to the Family

    As many of you know I have been wanting a dog for a very long time and since I never got one I have decided to adopt a virtual pet. Her name is Fatima, isn't she adorable?

    California

    I had such a great time in California. I am finally back in TX (not that I want to be back) and enjoying my busy life once again. Although I have been back for exactly a week I still keep hoping that I will wake up in the morning and find myself in Los Angeles or San Francisco.
    It was a great vacation, Chico went with me and we went out every night we were there except for 2 days. That is 10 days of going out and staying out until at least 1 a.m. and up to 5 a.m. When I got back I was exhausted. I don't regret it though, we met some great people and I came back with a GREAT tan. I know, I know, I am Mexican, how much of a tan could I have gotten...but let me tell you...I have the perfect color now. I wish I was this dark all of the time.
    Here are some highlights of the trip:
    Saw Family (Mom, Dad, Sister)
    Took Chico to see some of the tourist stuff
    SPENT TIME AT THE BEACH
    Did some great shopping
    Went to San Francisco
    Had some time to think

    I know the recap is short and it doesn't have a lot of details but I can't bring myself to bore you with 12 days full of stuff in one entry. I will just say I had fun and I can't wait to go back again.

    One more thing...I did some shopping while I was there and bought some great casual clothes. This past Friday I was at a local bar and I came to the realization that I would never be able to wear the clothes I bought. The new clothes are casual and I live in an uptight, pretentious city. I guess I will have to put them away until I go on vacation again.

    Thursday, September 01, 2005

    I Confess

    My confessions

    [ ] I am bisexual

    [x ] I am homosexual

    [ ]I've run away from home

    [] I listen to political music.

    [ ] I collect comic books.

    [X I shut others out when I'm sad

    [X] I open up to others easily -

    [X] I am keeping a secret from the world

    [X] I watch the news

    [ ] I own over 5 rap CDs

    [ ] I own an ipod they jacked IT!

    [] I own something from Hot Topic

    [X] I love Disney movies.

    [ ] I am a sucker for brown hair

    [ ]I don't kill bugs.

    [x] I curse regularly.

    [ ] I have "x"s in my screen name.

    [] I've slipped out a "lol" in a real conversation.

    [ ] I love Spam (wait.. spam maill?? or food spam?? well either..

    [ ] I bake well

    [x] I would wear pajamas to school.

    [] I own something from Abercrombie

    [X] I have a job

    [X ] I love Martha Stewart.

    [X WELL, IN MY OWN WAY] I am in love with someone.

    [ ] I am guilty of tYpInG lIkE tHiS

    [X] I am self conscious.

    [X] I like to laugh.

    [] I smoke a pack a day.

    [] loved Go Ask Alice.

    [x] I have cough drops when I'm not sick

    [ ] I can't swallow pills. - i have to break them in half

    [ ] I have many scars

    [x]I've been out of this country

    [ X] I believe in ghosts.

    [ ] I can't sleep if there is a spider in the room

    [x ] I am really ticklish.

    [x] I LOOOVE chocolate.

    [X ] I bite my nails

    [X] I am comfortable with being me

    [] I play computer games/video games when I'm bored

    [ X ] Gotten lost in the city

    [] Saw a shooting star.

    [] I had a serious Surgery.

    [X] Gone out in public in your pajamas

    [X ] I have kissed a stranger.

    [] Hugged a stranger.

    [] been in a fist fight with the same sex.

    [] Been arrested.

    []Laughed and had milk/soda come out of your nose.

    [] Pushed all the buttons on an elevator

    [X] Made out in an elevator.

    [] Swore at your parents.

    [] Kicked a guy where it hurts

    [ ] Been skydiving.

    [ ] Been bungee jumping.

    [] Broken a bone.

    [x] Played spin the bottle.

    [X] Gotten stitches

    [ ] Drank a whole gallon of milk in one hour.

    [X] Bitten someone.

    [ ] Been to Yosemite Falls.

    [X] Gotten the chicken pox.

    [] Crashed into a car.

    [ ] Been to Japan

    [X] Ridden in a taxi

    [] Shoplifted.

    [] Been fired.

    [X] had feelings for someone who didn't have them back

    [ ] Stole something from your job.

    [x] Gone on a blind date.

    [x] Had a crush on a teacher/coach.

    [] Celebrated Mardi Gras in New Orleans.

    [X ] Been to Europe.

    [x ] Slept with a co-worker.

    [ ] Been married

    [ ] Gotten divorced.

    [] Saw someone dying.

    [x] Driven over 400 miles in one day.

    [X ] Been to Canada.

    [X] Been on a plane.

    [] Seen the Rocky Horror Picture Show.

    [] Thrown up in a bar.

    [X] Eaten Sushi.

    [ ] Been snowboarding.

    [ ] Been skiing.

    [X] Been ice skating.

    [X] Met someone in person from the internet.

    [ ] Been to a motocross show.

    [x] Going to or have gone to college.

    [] Done hard drugs

    [X] Taken painkillers.

    [ ] Cheated on someone else ..

    pass this on with your own confessions

    Monday, August 15, 2005

    Kids are a zest pool of disease.

    My 2 nephews and my niece are here from California on vacation. The boys have been staying at my house a lot and I really enjoy having them there, they add laughter and life to my house. Last week, the boys went to stay with one of my sisters who had sick children and late last week my nephews got sick. One of them had fever, diarrhea and was throwing up. While the other starting coughing, had blisters in his mouth, had fever, and was throwing up.

    Well, on Sunday I got it. It all started around 1 and from 1 to midnight I was throwing up about every 15 minutes. I couldn't even keep down water, it was horrible. I felt as if I was going to die. I have never been that sick in all of my life. While I was doubled over the toilet I kept thinking about how those kids are a zest pool of disease and then...the oldest boy came over to the bathroom to check up on me and to see if I needed anything. I thought it was the sweetest thing in the world. My own bother didn't even do that. He was so cute, I took care of him while he was sick and I would keep bringing him medicine, seven up and crackers and he wanted to do the same thing. How cute is that? I now know that all liquids make it worse so I was actually making him sicker rather than helping him out, I didn't tell him that though.

    Other than having a HUGE headache, being a little dizzy, and having a throwing back pain I am all better now. I am still afraid to eat so I have only had a yogurt and a glass of orange juice since yesterday morning. I am very hungry but I am afraid to eat. On a positive note, I am 5 lbs skinnier today :) Aren't diseases wonderful for diets?

    Thursday, August 04, 2005

    My friend Juan

    I have a friend name Juan, yes just one friend named Juan and for his birthday party he decided to change outfits several different times throughout the night to see if anyone noticed. Well, today I have done the same thing, although it wasn't planned. This morning when I left the house I didn't look at my schedule and I didn't realize I had a meeting this afternoon and I was wearing a work shirt with a logo. So I went home for lunch and I changed. I am now waiting to see if anyone notices.

    Monday, July 18, 2005

    Gray Hair

    If I hear "You have so much gray hair!" ONE more time...I swear I am going to start shooting someone.
    Yes, I do have gray hair!
    Yes, I am getting old!
    No, it is not because I worry to much!
    No, I don't color my hair!

    I feel better!

    Monday, June 20, 2005

    I am not a quitter but I am going to quit

    I am officially done smoking. I was sitting at home tonight working on some non profit stuff and I had a huge craving for a cigarette. Luckily I had some left over from this weekend so I went outside and smoked one. Although I recently starting smoking socially it is starting to become a bad habit. The more I smoke the more I crave it. Smoking is so relaxing, after you take your first drag you become so relaxed and it feels oh sooo good. While I was sitting outside I realized that I don't want to be a smoker anymore. I am taking the cigarettes I have left and I am going to take them with work with me tomorrow and throw them in the trash.

    How could something so bad make you feel so good?

    Sunday, June 19, 2005

    It's been a long, long time

    So much has happened since my last post but most of you that keep up with me know most of it. I am going to try to get back intoit and keep most of my life online...well not most of it but the part that I want to share online.

    Monday, May 09, 2005

    Toronto, The Weekend, and other happenings.

    My trip to Canada was good. Just good. I have always enjoyed taking trips by myself because it lets me clear my head, relax, and give my vocal cords a rest, but this time my trip was uneventful. It is all my fault, I know, I am usually very anal about planning my trips down to the last detail but this time I decided to just figure it out when I got there which was a big mistake. I spent a lot of time trying to figure out the city and what it had to offer.
    Before I left I kept monitoring the weather in CA and it was always in the 40’s and low 50’s so I was ready with my coat and lots and lots of sweaters. When I get to the airport I noticed that everyone is wearing shorts and t-shirts so I knew my coat was probably a bit overboard. Although for me 50 is still cold, apparently in CA 50 is great weather. When I get to CA the weather is beautiful and I was kind of disappointed because I was looking forward to wearing my scarf that doubles as a shawl, it even matched my coat and everything. Perhaps I will get to use my scarf next winter.
    When I first got to Toronto my first impression was of a NYC pre Gulianni. Do you remember NYC when it was full of graffiti and dirty? That is what Toronto reminds me of, although it isn’t as bad and it is a lot safer that was my first impression. I really didn’t do anything on Friday because I got in kind of late and I was really tired. Saturday was spent walking through the different neighborhoods and relaxing in many of the public squares they have in Toronto. I did all of the typical touristy stuff like going to CN Tower, Rogers Center (?), China Tow, The Gay Village, Greek Town, some sort of market, etc. I had the BEST Dim Sum, EVER!!! I went to this little place in China Town off of Padina and it was amazing, the best dim sum I have ever had by far. That night I met up with Carlos and Kim and they took me to one of their favorite restaurants where Kim ordered all of our food in Cantonese for the three of us without asking what we want to eat. I was a little disturbed by that, I LOVE food and I like to have a say in what I am going to eat. Soon after, the staff was bringing lots of food to the table, by a lot I mean 8 different dishes. 8…….there were only three of us. Needless to say we hardly made a dent in the food but it was good.
    After dinner we went out to the gay bars in Toronto. Have you ever seen the show Queer as Folk? Have you noticed how gay, crowded, and lively their gay neighborhood is? Toronto is nothing like that. I have seen the show once or twice before and I thought the gay district looked very big and so full of people. Well, when we got there the hood is only 2 city blocks. I was a little disappointed but the clubs were good. They played good music and they are very small so they don’t let a lot of people in at the same time. I think they must bus people in from the surrounding cities when they film the show because there was hardly anyone there. I met some people from Dallas that night and it seems a lot of us fled the DFW area for the weekend. We exchanged numbers so we could get together when we got back to town but I already misplaced their numbers. Maybe they will call me.

    I was suppose to go to Niagara Falls on Sunday with a tour from the hotel I was staying at but I did something I don’t normally do, I slept in. I forgot to ask the hotel for a wake up call so I didn’t wake up on time. So instead of Niagara Falls, which I was really looking forward to going to, I walked around the city and did some more shopping (see previous entry).
    On Sunday there was a protest in front of my hotel, it seems protesters like to follow me wherever I go, so I walked over to the group to find out what they were protesting and it turns out that it was the Falum Dong school of thought from China. Recently, Wade has become a big follower of their philosophies and has started practicing but he has never been able to explain the philosophies to me in a manner in which I can understand so I sat through a little lecture and a meditation session that helped me get a better idea of what they are all about. I still don’t understand all of their ideas and philosophies but I have a better grasp of the whole thing.


    I really didn’t get to do much after the conference started because I had to try to get some work done in the afternoons while I was in Canada. I had to switch hotels to be closer to the conference and it would have cost me CAD50 to get to downtown Toronto so I decided to stick around the hotel area. There really wasn’t much to do in the afternoons around the hotel so we all (including my new love) hanged out in the hotel and drank. A lot. The conference had a social hour immediately following the conference and we all took advantage of the free drink opportunities. It was great, I love drinking with compliance people, they get so passionate about compliance issues that it is kind of funny. They had raffles every afternoon and I won twice but I had to pass on the opportunity because of the luggage situation. Next time I am going to pack an extra bag just in case.

    That is really all I have to report. I met some interesting people and I learned a lot about what is going on in the industry.

    Toronto, The Weekend, and other happenings.

    My trip to Canada was good. Just good. I have always enjoyed taking trips by myself because it lets me clear my head, relax, and give my vocal cords a rest, but this time my trip was uneventful. It is all my fault, I know, I am usually very anal about planning my trips down to the last detail but this time I decided to just figure it out when I got there which was a big mistake. I spent a lot of time trying to figure out the city and what it had to offer.
    Before I left I kept monitoring the weather in CA and it was always in the 40’s and low 50’s so I was ready with my coat and lots and lots of sweaters. When I get to the airport I noticed that everyone is wearing shorts and t-shirts so I knew my coat was probably a bit overboard. Although for me 50 is still cold, apparently in CA 50 is great weather. When I get to CA the weather is beautiful and I was kind of disappointed because I was looking forward to wearing my scarf that doubles as a shawl, it even matched my coat and everything. Perhaps I will get to use my scarf next winter.
    When I first got to Toronto my first impression was of a NYC pre Gulianni. Do you remember NYC when it was full of graffiti and dirty? That is what Toronto reminds me of, although it isn’t as bad and it is a lot safer that was my first impression. I really didn’t do anything on Friday because I got in kind of late and I was really tired. Saturday was spent walking through the different neighborhoods and relaxing in many of the public squares they have in Toronto. I did all of the typical touristy stuff like going to CN Tower, Rogers Center (?), China Tow, The Gay Village, Greek Town, some sort of market, etc. I had the BEST Dim Sum, EVER!!! I went to this little place in China Town off of Padina and it was amazing, the best dim sum I have ever had by far. That night I met up with Carlos and Kim and they took me to one of their favorite restaurants where Kim ordered all of our food in Cantonese for the three of us without asking what we want to eat. I was a little disturbed by that, I LOVE food and I like to have a say in what I am going to eat. Soon after, the staff was bringing lots of food to the table, by a lot I mean 8 different dishes. 8…….there were only three of us. Needless to say we hardly made a dent in the food but it was good.
    After dinner we went out to the gay bars in Toronto. Have you ever seen the show Queer as Folk? Have you noticed how gay, crowded, and lively their gay neighborhood is? Toronto is nothing like that. I have seen the show once or twice before and I thought the gay district looked very big and so full of people. Well, when we got there the hood is only 2 city blocks. I was a little disappointed but the clubs were good. They played good music and they are very small so they don’t let a lot of people in at the same time. I think they must bus people in from the surrounding cities when they film the show because there was hardly anyone there. I met some people from Dallas that night and it seems a lot of us fled the DFW area for the weekend. We exchanged numbers so we could get together when we got back to town but I already misplaced their numbers. Maybe they will call me.

    I was suppose to go to Niagara Falls on Sunday with a tour from the hotel I was staying at but I did something I don’t normally do, I slept in. I forgot to ask the hotel for a wake up call so I didn’t wake up on time. So instead of Niagara Falls, which I was really looking forward to going to, I walked around the city and did some more shopping (see previous entry).
    On Sunday there was a protest in front of my hotel, it seems protesters like to follow me wherever I go, so I walked over to the group to find out what they were protesting and it turns out that it was the Falum Dong school of thought from China. Recently, Wade has become a big follower of their philosophies and has started practicing but he has never been able to explain the philosophies to me in a manner in which I can understand so I sat through a little lecture and a meditation session that helped me get a better idea of what they are all about. I still don’t understand all of their ideas and philosophies but I have a better grasp of the whole thing.


    I really didn’t get to do much after the conference started because I had to try to get some work done in the afternoons while I was in Canada. I had to switch hotels to be closer to the conference and it would have cost me CAD50 to get to downtown Toronto so I decided to stick around the hotel area. There really wasn’t much to do in the afternoons around the hotel so we all (including my new love) hanged out in the hotel and drank. A lot. The conference had a social hour immediately following the conference and we all took advantage of the free drink opportunities. It was great, I love drinking with compliance people, they get so passionate about compliance issues that it is kind of funny. They had raffles every afternoon and I won twice but I had to pass on the opportunity because of the luggage situation. Next time I am going to pack an extra bag just in case.

    That is really all I have to report. I met some interesting people and I learned a lot about what is going on in the industry.

    Thursday, April 21, 2005

    I am in love

    I knew it was bound to happen in Canada, I just didn’t know with whom. I fell in love. His name is (say it with a Yugoslavian/French accent) Hugo and he is absolutely adorable. He has the sexiest accent I have ever heard, and although he doesn’t know it yet, he is mine, all mine. I sat by him for most of the conference just to hear him speak and I got chills every time he said my name…uhhhhhh. Wait, I need a moment……. Alright, I am ready now. He works for a company that manufactures paper and paper products and he gets a discount on toilet paper. Isn’t that fabulous? Toilet paper, we all use toilet paper and it’s not like you could ever have to much toilet paper. Just when you’ve given up on using the facilities you have to go again. You always need more. I seriously think I am in love, if nothing else just for the benefits that would coming with dating someone like Hugo.

    Tuesday, April 19, 2005

    I have an addiction.

    I am about to make a confession, a confession that I hope my friends and family don’t use against me later or judge harshly. Just remember, I am only human and I am allowed to have flaws.

    I have an addiction. Yes, I have a problem. I have kept it a secret for many years now but this weekend forced me to look at myself from a different angle and it showed me that I am a weak, weak man. I can’t help it; sometimes I just do it because it is there. I don’t really need it, but I can’t seem to stop myself. My addiction is shopping. More specifically, shopping for shoes. I have more shoes than anyone I know, I really don’t need one more pair but I couldn’t help it. There are so many shoe stores in Toronto it was like being in heaven, a dirty heaven but heaven nevertheless. I started shopping on Saturday and I did pretty good, I bought a few shirts and some other things I don’t need and will probably never use. On Sunday, I broke down. I walked into a shoe store, just to check it out, I didn’t want the shoes to feel neglected, and I walked out with a pair of shoes. I promised myself that I wasn’t going to buy anything else that day because I didn’t have room in my suitcase. Later that day I was walking passed an Aldo’s shoe store and I couldn’t help but go in. There was a sign on the window that said 50% off. Yes, 50%. I love Aldo shoes and I normally buy their shoes for the full price so I had to go in. How could I not, it was half off. At first I didn’t see anything that I liked but give me 15 minutes in a store and I walked out with two pairs of shoes. If you are keeping track, that is 3 pairs total. Keep in mind that I don’t have space in my luggage to take them back home. Aldo’s is based in Canada and they are the Starbucks of Canada, they have stores in every corner. As I am walking through the city I keep running into more Aldo shoe stores and I am starting to believe that they were strategically placed in my path to test my will power. I seriously saw and went into at least 5 Aldo shoe stores within a mile radius. All said and done I ended p with 4 pairs of shoes. WAIT, before you judge me, they were on sale and I got a GREAT deal on all of them, except maybe the first pair I bought, but I love them and I would never think about taking them back.

    I go back home tomorrow and I am wondering what trick I will need to pull to get all of these shoes back home. I am at a conference full of logistics and compliance professionals, perhaps I should propose my situation as a case study and have them provide a solution and a rate quote by the end of the day.

    Oh, one more thing. All of the boots at Aldo’s were on sale. Had they had them in my size I would have bough two pairs. Guess what I am doing this weekend? I am going to the closest Aldo’s in TX and looking for my boots.

    I am ready for an intervention.

    Wednesday, April 06, 2005

    Week in review

    The whole time change has really screwed me up three times now. I think I have updated all of the watches, clocks, alarms, etc that I have so it should not happen again. I can't be late anymore.

    I finally reserved my hotel for my trip to Canada. Thanks to my friend Noboru I got a reeealy good deal at a really nice hotel. I still don't know what I am going to do while I am there but at least I have part of it taken care of. The hotel I am staying at is close to everything so I may just plan it in when I get there. I can't wait to get out of town.

    I talked to W. today and him and his 25 closest friends are going to Vegas in June/July. I am considering joining them. They are staying at The Palm, I am not sure I can afford that. But who knows, it will be nice to go to Vegas with people who actually like to have some fun. I can finally have the Vegas experience I didn't get last time I was there. Who knows.....it will be a good opportunity to spend some time with W. and get out of town again.

    Sunday, April 03, 2005

    WOW Weekend


    Climbing
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Here are a few pictures of my weekend and the ropes course I took as part of a leadership course. It was the most amazing time I have had with a group of strangers in my life. If I could do it over again....I would.

    Sunday I took part of the Tarrant County AIDS Walk but we were a little late so we missed most of the people.

    Tight Wire


    Tight Wire
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Tight Wire Pose


    Tight Wire Pose
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Log


    Log
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Transfering


    Transfering
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Tight Rope 4


    Tight Rope 4
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Swinging


    Swinging
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Friday, March 18, 2005

    I figured out why The Straights get married

    My brother has been visiting this week for Spring Break and all week long he has been cleaning and cooking. When I get home from work or from whatever activity I have going on there is something in the refrigerator waiting for me. I had pork chops one night and steak the other. Who could ask for anything else? And it really wasn’t all about the food, it was more about sharing household chores. He cooks, I clean, I take out the trash, etc.
    So I was thinking, is this why The Straights get married? Two people, half the work. It makes total sense to me. Although some (especially women) would argue that women do most of the work, the fact that you have two people working towards the same goal makes things so much easier. This whole sharing responsibility thing is wonderful. I have made a decision. A decision that I hope to keep. I, CR, will get married or move in with someone within the next year…or 2…or 10. Yes, within the next 10 years. Imagine how much more convenient my life would be.

    That is it, my petition to for The Gays to get married is the mail.

    Sunday, March 06, 2005

    New York New York


    New York New York
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Eiffel Tower


    Eiffel Tower
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Eiffel Tower


    Eiffel Tower
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Metal and Fabric


    Metal and Fabric
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Metal and Sky


    Metal and Sky
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Golden Goose


    Golden Goose
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    The Real Vegas Part 2


    The Real Vegas Part 2
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    The Real Vegas Part 1


    The Real Vegas Part 1
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    Vegas At Night


    Vegas At Night
    Originally uploaded by kai7710.

    View from the top of the Eiffel Tower

    My House is a Home AGAIN.

    I cleaned for a few hours on Sunday and my house is clean once again. I have been a bit busy for the past few weeks and have not had a chance to clean my house until today. It smells clean, it looks uncluttered, and I feel at home again. When my house is a mess I would rather not be here because it makes me feels as if my life was also a mess and I would rather not think about that.
    I got a lot done today, I almost finished my PM paper, I took a bunch of books to Half Price, I cleaned, and I visited with family. I decided to put my homework off for today, that means I will need to do it during the week.

    I also got a chance to upload my pictures from Vegas so I will be posting a few of those later.

    Wednesday, March 02, 2005

    Vegas

    I am back from Vegas and I had a good time.

    I am not going to bore you with to much of the details because 1. I know you don't care and 2. I can't write freely about what I want to write.
    I got to see my parents on Sunday in Vegas and that was the highlight of my trip. I thought about hiding in the trunk of their car and have them take me back home to California. I was so close to going back home...so close. (Humming California here I come..or is it San Francisco here I come?)I think my parents would love to have me back in CA, I just don't think I could ever live with them.

    Anyway. Here is a summary of my trip in 50 word or less, Ready?

    Missed flight and had to wait at airport for almost six hours. Didn't gamble that much, visited with parents. Did some shopping. Hanged around the pool and relaxed. Walked a lot, my feet hurt. For the juicy part, you are going to have to call me and find out.

    Mid Week and all is Well

    I have another presentation tomorrow and I am not ready. I have tried to prepare but I am just not into it. The good thing is that it is about compliance issues in CA and I know the subject like the back of my hand so it should not be to difficult. I just hope I can fill my one hour slot with useless information that nobody will remember after they have left the room.

    I also have a lunch with my co-workers. They decided they wanted to do an "international" theme lunch so everyone is bringing a dish that they have prepared at home. If you have talked to me about work lately you know how disappointed I am with my work team. I just don't think I can sit there for two hours and pretend to be happy with them. I still don't know what I am taking, I am probably going to stop at a grocery chain and pick something up. Or if I conveniently forget, I can say I am not going to go and eat their food since I didn't bring anything.

    KB...why did you abandon me? WHY? Oh, I have a lot of news to tell you. A bunch of people are leaving the P. You are going to be so surprised when I tell you who it is. There are definitely more changes coming, I can feel it.
    I was looking at the SR list and you still have like 4 SR's out there. Even after you left your ideas are still working for us. :)

    It is mid week...but I guess all is not well. Have you noticed that have been complaining in most of my post lately? I need to get that attitude in check.

    Wednesday, February 23, 2005

    Life and the challenges that Come with It.

    I haven't really been blogging lately I think it is because I don't really have much to say. I know that is shocking for those of you who know me but I seem to be going through a very busy time in my life where I have a million and one things going at the same time and they are keeping me very busy. I became involved with a gay organization in town and it is taking up a lot more time than I expected. I won't be writing to much about the group and I will try to keep my personal life and my group life as separated as possible but I am having fun. I have met a lot of interesting people and I think it will help me grow as a person.

    I am not going to write about the Austin trip Chico and I took a few weeks ago, Chico did a very good job at recapping that trip. I did have a blast and we are planning on going back the weekend of March the 11th to attend a political event.

    I am going to Vegas this weekend and I plan on having a good time. I will be in the City of Sin, I may sin a little :) or not, you know me. I am just excited to get away from work and DFW for a while. It is suppose to rain most of the time we are there so I hope we can find things to do. I went and had lunch with Sarah and Eli on Wednesday and Sarah gave me good suggestions on what to do. My parents are still planning on joining us for the weekend. My mom called me tonight and her arm is hurting a lot. Did I mention that she fell and broke her arm about two months ago? Well, they took the cast off today and apparently she is in a lot of pain. If she is still in pain this weekend she will reconsider going to Vegas but I think my dad and sister will still go.

    I still don't have a dog. I can't seem to find a dog that I like. I may just have to get a black and white poodle. But can you really see me walking a poodle? We will see, I don't want to get a dog that I will be ashamed to walk. By the way, I am still taking donations for my labradoodle, you can just send them directly to my house. :)

    My economics class is killing me and Wade isn't as much help as I hoped he would be. He is always working and by the time he is on his way home I am already asleep. I have decided that being a restauranteur is not worth the pain and sacrifice. I hear what the poor guy has to deal and I am not sure it is worth it (for me). Now when we talk it is mostly about recipe's (not that I mind, you know I salivate talking about food)and about what is going on with the restaurants. I guess I should give an update on what is going on with Wade.....but perhaps that will happen another night.

    I guess I had a lot more to say than I thought. By the way...I am really glad that you guys started blogging again. :)

    Thursday, February 10, 2005

    It's 10:30 p.m. do you know where your Cesar is?

    Yes, it is 10:30 at night and I am still at work. We are going live with a new system on Monday and we are trying to get everything done by tomorrow so that we don't have to come to work on Friday.
    They are still working on setting up the servers and it is going to take them another 45 minutes. By the time we test and verify the system it will be 1 or 2 in the morning. We all have to be back up here at 7 a.m. to continue with the second server. Yawn. I am so tired...I am at the point of exhaustion.

    I am driving to Houston with Chico tomorrow. I am going to be such a poor traveling companion. The good thing is that it is Chico and that we get to go :) For a while I thought we were going to have to cancel because I was going to have to work this weekend but it has been confirmed and I am out of here.

    Right now we are living off of coffee, pizza, cookies, and stolen creamer. If we stay here much longer we are going to have to go and raid the refrigerator on other floors.

    Sunday, January 30, 2005

    Another Sleepless Night

    I am beginning to thing I have a problem, I can't seem to get a good night's sleep these days. Well, unless I have been drinking and then I can sleep like a log.

    I had a pretty productive weekend. Saturday was kind of busy but I got a lot done. I met a friend in HEB for boba tea and after that I decided to get a hair cut at the salon next door. It took the lady forty-five (45) minutes to cut my hair. She was very meticulous, if she saw a hair out of place she would go through and make sure everything was perfect. She was the nicest lady but it just took way to long. It was the LONGEST HAIRCUT EVER. On a good note, they are a full fledge salon and also do facials. I made an appointment for next Sunday. If I like them I will be switching from my facial lady to this new lady. She is much closer and a lot less expensive.

    Saturday night I headed out to Gayville with Chico and I had a good time. I had not been to the clubs in a few weeks. The last few times I have been at the bars/clubs they have been a bit empty. After Jr's and Station 4 we headed to The Brick. The Brick is a Black Gay club in Dallas. It was crowded and full of hot men. Next time we are going to have to go there first and then head out to the mainstream gay bars. The Brick reminds me of Pendulum but with a....a...ghetto crowd. Which isn't bad, there is nothing better that hot ghetto men.

    Sunday was pretty uneventful, I did some homework, visited with family, and went grocery shopping. It doesn't sound like much, but I slept until 12:30...it was great.

    That is all for now, have a great week.

    Thursday, January 27, 2005

    I can't sleep.

    It is 1:15 a.m. and I can't get to sleep. I have been so tired all day and looking forward to going to bed but now no matter what I do I can't fall asleep. I tried laying there praying but that didn't work...I pretty much tried everything...so now I am blogging. I wish someone was up to keep me company, I called Wade but he is asleep....I am going to have to get everyone's sleep schedule in case I have another of these nights. I may just start doing homework.

    How did you sleep last night?

    Wednesday, January 26, 2005

    Does anyone blog these days?

    After several weeks of not posting a blog or reading other peoples blogs I have decided to continue blogging. This morning I went to everyone's blog that I use to read and I have discovered that some blogs are no longer active or that nobody is posting anymore. What gives? Was blogging truly only a phase? Is everyone taking a break?

    I will continue to blog as much as possible. I have decided to cut down on the "personal" information that I post on my blog just in case people do read it but I will continue to blog. One of these days I will do a picture blog. I am excited about the possibilities.

    Are you still blogging? If not, why did you stop?

    Tuesday, December 28, 2004

    Are people truly capable of changing?

    I ask myself this question because my sister’s husband, whom I never liked, is all of a sudden a decent human being. My sister has been married for almost 13 years and I have never liked the guy. He has always been inattentive and condescending. I normally only see him once a year during the holidays and over the years he has been changing. This year when they showed up at my house for Christmas he seems like a completely different person.
    My sister had surgery two weeks ago and is not able to walk. Right now she is constrained to a wheel chair and to a recliner. Throughout this whole ordeal he has been very attentive towards her, making sure she eats the right kinds of food, gives her a bath every day, and takes care of her wound. Not only that, he feeds and makes sure the kids are doing what they are suppose to do and cleans house.
    How does someone go from being a total and complete jerk a few years ago to this?

    Are people truly capable of change or is this change temporary?

    Wednesday, December 01, 2004

    Fire!!!!

    I was driving to work this morning and I saw smoke coming from the general direction where I work and at that very instant I wished it was my office building that was burning so that I didn't have to go in to work today.
    It was then that I realized I need a new job or a new position.

    Tuesday, November 30, 2004

    Birds of a Feather Flock Together.

    Is the old adage true? Do individuals of like character tend to stay together?
    A friend of mine had a small gathering over the weekend and I was invited. When I got there and started mingling with the other guest I quickly found out everyone there had issues. One of the guest is on medication to help him with his abandonment issues, another is on medication for depression, another has self esteem issues, and another one brought her gay boyfriend and she really didn't have a clue he was gay. Through out the night I kept meeting people with similar issues, luckily it wasn't a big party.
    So I started thinking, if all of the host's friends have issues and the saying is true, am I as bad as these people? And if I am, are my friends a good representation of who I am?

    Friday, November 19, 2004

    Update on Life

    It has been a long time since I have made an update to my blog, so here is an all inclusive update on life as I know it.

    School is over and done with for the semester. I don’t have to start back up with school until January. I am going to use the next month to relax and do absolutely nothing. I plan on reading a lot and catching up on all of the books that I have on my “To Read” list.

    Tomorrow I start my meditation class. I am going to a Zen Monastery and I am going to learn to relax and clear my mind, something that I am not able to do on my own. I am really excited about it.

    There really isn’t much to report on the love life. Or nothing I want to publish for all to read anyway.

    The project I was working on for work is complete, well the first phase is anyway, and everyone has been coming by and telling me what a great job we did. Which makes me feel great, especially after all I had to go do make sure things went the way they were suppose to. According to everyone, it was the smoothest project in our work history, which says a lot about the people we had on the project. My stress is finally over, I can go back to sleeping and working normal hours. I have even been leaving early this week.

    The second and third phase of the project have begun. The second phase is not going to be as hard or require me to be so dedicated and the third phase mostly involves the broker and the software company. Life is great.

    Is the word Awesome making a come back? I have heard more people use the word Awesome these last few days than I have all year. Am I just so out of the loop on this or is such an early 90’s word? Next thing you know we are going to be walking around saying SWEET.

    Tuesday, November 16, 2004

    First MBA Semester

    As of today I am officially finished with my first semester of my MBA work. I have completed my last paper and I will be turning it in shortly.
    It wasn't as bad as I thought it was going to be, it was definitely a lot of work but nothing that I can't handle. There isn't anything I can take in the mini-mester so I am done for a while.

    I am going to catch up on my reading, world events, and social life.

    Sunday, November 14, 2004

    Blond Moment Two

    I have been having way to many blond moments lately. I think it is partly due to the fact that I am overworked and sleep deprived.
    On Saturday morning I was having a pancake breakfast with Dameyun and I was trying to pour syrup on my pancakes and instead I poured coffee on my pancake's. Luckily it only got on the top one and I was able to eat the other two. I was so embarrassed, here I am with a guy I somewhat like and I am being a total dumb ass. He thought it was funny and we just laughed it off. By Wednesday I should be all caught up on my sleep and I won't have to work so much, I see the light.

    Sunday, November 07, 2004

    I feel like a blond

    I went to Blockbuster to return a movie and I figured that I would run by the library and return a book on the same run since both are relatively close to each other. I got to blockbuster and I had so many other things on my mind that I dropped the book off in the Blockbuster drop box and when I got to the library I noticed I still had the movie with me. I had to go back to Blockbuster and ask for the movie back, it was rather embarrassing especially since it was the cute guy that works there that was at the return counter.
    There goes my chances of going out on a date with him.

    Sunday, October 31, 2004

    Black Like Me

    I made an amazing discovery today. I discovered the public library. I went to the public library for the first time in almost nine years. I was amazed to see that they still had me in their system and did not have to re-apply to get a new library card. I went to the library to do some research for my Human behavior paper, which I am happy to say is about 95% complete.
    I should be working on my stats paper but decided to make an entry instead.

    While at the library I wandered through my favorite sections at the book store and found some really good books on religion and cultural issues. I decided to get two books, 1. The Hispanic Condition by Ilan Stavans and 2. Black Like me by John Howard Griffin. I imediately started to read Black Like Me and put my research aside.

    For those who have not read Black Like Me here is a synopsis. The author, John Howard, changes the pigment of his skin to try to get a feeling of how it truly felt to be black. Keep in mind that this book was written back in 1959 and the racial conditions of the time were a lot different. Every time I saw the words Negro and nigger I was surprised and I had to remember what I was reading. Back to my summary, at first I was concerned that the author was going to be biased and that simply changing his skin color was going to give him a an accurate view of what was going on in the south but I believe that as time passed and he lived the life of a black man he got to experience the same things blacks did back then. Another thing that concerned me was that there are certain cultural norms and standards that are ingrained in all of us and not having grown up black he would have missed some of those things. But so far I think he is doing a great job. I am only on page 89 and I still have a ways to go before I finish but it looks like a great book.

    Pick it up and let me know what you think.

    Wednesday, October 27, 2004

    Stress

    I don't think I am handling stress as well as I use to in my younger days. Before I was able to work better under stress but these days with everything that I have going on it seems like I am more frazzled that normal. I can't wait for classes to be over in two weeks so that I can actually take a moment to relax and rest. My classes and the big project I am working on at work both end on the same day, on the 15th of November I am going to want to celebrate. You guys better be ready for me.

    Tuesday, October 26, 2004

    Thanks for the Memories

    What do you say when something that could have been, something that was, or something that you wanted to be is over. I guess there really isn't much to say except "Thanks for the memories."

    Tuesday, October 19, 2004

    People...people..who need people...

    I stayed home today because I was not feeling well. I woke up late, did some homework, took a nap, I did all of the things you should do when you are home but really should be at work. :)

    I am not normally at home during the day and I am sure that neither are any of you that read this, but do you guys realize how many people come around and ring your doorbell while you are gone?
    Just today I had Nanette(?) come by and try to sell me magazines.
    Jim came by and tried to sell me service for cable.
    And I had religious people come by and invite me their church.

    So I started to think, what if they really weren't with these organizations and were just the decoy to come to your house, find out if someone was home, and if nobody is home they call their back up and the take everything you own. What if?

    Can you tell I am bored? Staying home is not as fun as I thought it was going to be but I did get a lot done.

    People, People who need people. Are the most wonderful people.....(sing along with me).

    Friday, October 15, 2004

    Damn Religious People!!!

    O.K. I confess...I don't hate republicans. What I do hate are those over the top religious fanatics who go around imposing their believes on other people!!!

  • Comments from October 13 Posting


  • That jerk probably believes that everyone who is not catholic is going to hell!! What ever happened to not judging your fellow brothers and sisters? I really hope god takes compassion on his/her soul for all of the hatred he/she is spreading around.

    Wednesday, October 13, 2004

    Damn Republicans!!!!

    That is the first thing I thought when I got home from work today and my Kerry/Edwards lawn sign was in pieces on my front porch. I was so mad!!! After my first sign was stolen and with all of the reports of signs being removed from yards by republicans, that was the fist conclusion I jumped to.

    Later, I went back outside and I noticed that my yard had been mowed and I realized that my neighbor was probably out moving his yard with his riding mower and just decided to do mine while he was at it. I have been so swamped with work and school work that I was relieved that I did not have to do it myself.

    I probably shouldn't have prematurely accused the republicans. I love my republican and democrat brothers and sisters alike.

    Thursday, October 07, 2004

    My birthday will never be the same again!!!

    There is a new position that became available in our department and they have asked if one of my employees is interested in applying. It is not just one of....it is the best employee ever. I talked to her about it and she has decided to leave my department because it is a promotion. I am very sad, I want to cry. Why would they deliver this horrible news on my b-day? I don’t even feel like celebrating anymore.

    Horrible news!!!

    Monday, October 04, 2004

    Fear

    We all know what are the things we need to change in our lives to make them happier but at times we are unable to make those changes.
    Our heart tells us what it is we need to do, but yet we ignore it.

    What is it about fear that leaves you paralyzed? What is it about the unknown that keeps you from making changes?

    I have reached a new low!!

    Yesterday I was at Sam’s with Sarah and Will and we got hotdogs to keep us from starving before dinner and as I was eating my hot dog all I could think about was how many calories were in it and how long it would take me to burn it off if I went for a jog. I was planning on going for a jog at the park once I got home but luckily it started to rain so I no longer had that option. When I got home I was going to get on the treadmill but after thinking about it I decided I was going to fight the fear of gaining weight. I enjoyed the hot dog and it was GOOOOOD.

    Did you guys ever see the commercials that were meant for teenage girls? They would talk about issues such as beauty, weight, etc and at the end it would say “Girlfriend, you are beautiful!” and that is how I felt after that having that internal dialogue. Cesar, you are beautiful (no comments from anyone) even if you were to have 10, 20, or 30 pounds extra.

    Thursday, September 30, 2004

    Paulo Coelho

    I have a new favorite author, he has written such works as The Alchemist, Eleven Minutes, and By the River Piedra I sat and Wept.

    If you have not read any of his works I strongly recommend that you do.

    Wednesday, September 29, 2004

    Gift Suggestions

    Most of you know I am horrible at selecting gifts for other people and will usually take the easy way out and buy gift certificates.
    I need your help, Wade's Birthday is on October the 1st and I want to get him something good for his birthday. I thought about flying up there and surprising him but after looking over my budget last night I have decided that won't be possible.
    Does anyone have any gift suggestion ideas?

    Tuesday, September 28, 2004

    No Se

    Lo dice el o lo digo yo.

    Monday, September 27, 2004

    "Me Paso dias y dias delante de esos libros y cuadernos haciendo un esfuerzo sobrehumano para comprar mi propia esclavitud.

    - Fatima from Paulo Coelho's A Orillas del Rio Piedra Me Sente Y Llore.

  • A Orillas Del rio Piedra Me Sente y Llore
  • Tuesday, September 21, 2004

    Spontaneous

    Who said I wasn't spontaneous?
    I just purchased a ticket to go to San Francisco for the weekend. Spur of the moment, no prior planning. Who says people can't change.

    It is either one of the craziest things I have ever done or the dumbest things I have ever done. But I was jogging and I a thought passed through my head and the next thing I know I am at home making flight reservations.

    I am excited, I get to see Wade and spend some more time with him. We decided we were just going to hang out and spend time together, no heavy partying or wild and crazy nights. They are having a street fair so we will do that and we are also taking the ferry to Sausalito. I also have to go back and eat at In-N-Out and buy some chocolate.

    Sometime between now and Friday I need to go get a digital camera to take with me.

    Drugs = Good

    It is amazing how good drugs can make you feel. I had some medical test done today and they had to put me to sleep and I feel amazing today. I got home around noon and I went directly to bed I woke up for a few minutes but went back to bed shortly after.
    I feel more rested and relaxed than I have felt in a very long time. If it was up to me it would be a requirement to be sedated at least once every month.

    Monday, September 20, 2004

    The weekend

    I had a pretty good weekend.

    On Friday I went to the movies with Ivan, Chico, and Chico's friend Carrie. We went to see the movie Hero with Jet Li. The movie was really good, not as much martial arts as I would have liked but the colors and the symbolism were really good. After the movies Ivan and I went over to Starbucks and grabbed a cup of coffee and just talked. Well, I just talked. Ivan had to sit there and listen to me talk about Wade. After that conversation I promised that I will not talk about him as much, I annoyed myself.
    Saturday was a pretty laid back day, I did a lot of house stuff and hanged out with family and friends. Nothing to terribly exciting.

    Sunday we went to the Gay Pride Parade in Dallas, TX. It was my first time going and it wasn't as exciting as I thought it would be. There were way to many floats but they were all very plain. Next year I want to be on a float, so I need to get involved with an organization.

    That is about it for now.

    Oh, I got a call from Wade about 11:30 last night and...oh, I promised I wouldn't talk about Wade so much.

    Monday, September 13, 2004

    Silly Me Part 2

    I admit....I have a problem....and admitting that you have a problem is half the battle. I sent him a text message earlier in an attempt to clarify what had been said and repair any damages. I believe my message went something like “Good Morning. I hope I didn’t scare you to much last night.”
    His Reply:
    “A better question would be what’s your intention? Given What you told me last night. What are you thinking?”

    I figured we were better off having this conversation over the phone than through text messaging so I went home for lunch and we had another of our long conversations. It turns out my comments from last night lead him to believe I was not interested in him. I won’t get into to much details but we talked it out and we have come to the conclusion that we are both very interested in getting to know the other and we will continue talking and see where it takes us. He is still planning to come to DFW in the near future and we will have the opportunity to spend some time together and we will figure things out as we go along.

    I am afraid of commitment, but he has made me feel the warm and fuzies that I have not felt in a long time and I think that deserves a shot. My heart may get broken or I may end up falling in love. It is a chance I am willing to take.

    Silly Me

    I don't know what it is about me, call it a defense mechanism, but every time I meet a guy that I like I always, unintentionally, push them away.
    I was on the phone with Wade last night for almost two hours and we were just talking about our past etc. I don't know if I was to honest about the whole afraid of commitment thing....but I think I might have scared him.....why would anyone make an effort to start a relationship with someone who is afraid of commitment?
    I am going to talk to him about it again tonight and try to explain myself. Hopefully I didn't scare him to much.

    Friday, September 10, 2004

    Digital Camera

    I need a good, small, inexpensive digital camera. Does anyone have a good recommendation?

    Wednesday, September 08, 2004

    Wade

    I was sitting in my 3 p.m. meeting when all of a sudden my pocket starts vibrating and it tells me I have a new message. I leave my meeting because I was hoping it was Wade :) and I retrieve my voice mails and it tells me I don't have any so I start playing with my phone and it is a text message (I never eve knew I had text messaging). The message was sent to me at 1:45 p.m. and it says

    Yea. Crazy.

    On Sunday night we were at a club and he asked me if I always say "Yea" and "Crazy" when there is nothing else going on. For the rest of the night he would look at me and just say those to words together. It was rather cute.

    I told myself I wasn't going to call him, but after that how could I not? I am going to call him on the way home and see how he is doing. ;)

    Tuesday, September 07, 2004

    SF

    I had a great time in SF these past few days. There was some unexpected drama but I had fun inspite of that.

    I don't know where to start, I suppose the beginning is always a good place for that. I won't go into details but I will provide a summary of my trip.

    Friday was a pretty uneventful day. We got there and we explore the city, we hit some of the big touristy stuff like the cable cars, and Lombard St. David, Kathy's brother, has pretty much taken control of the trip and I don't mind because we all wanted to do the same things and he had time to look at the maps, read the travel books, and do research on the city. After a few of the attractions it is very clear he does not know where he is going or what we are doing so I tried to take over and he gets upset. So I back down b/c he is Kathy's brother. And I like Kathy.

    Maybe I should start by explaining who Kathy and David are. Kathy is my friend of six years and I love her to death. We have such a great time together every time we hang out. David is her gay brother who lives in Paris and who comes to visit once a year. I have only seen David once a year for the past few years and we have always gotten along just fine. Perhaps it is because there were always a lot more people around and it was always for a few hours. Who knows but it was always fine.

    O.K. back to my story. The hotel we were staying at had cocktail hour from 4 p.m to 6 p.m. every day. I loved cocktail hour because we got to meet some great people that were staying in our hotel. The movie directory Marvin Catz and his wife were staying there and they were both nice people. The guy because a bit of a jerk after two hours of drinking but he was still fine.

    I also met 4 gay guys (two couples) from Vancouver who were really cool. One of the couples has been together for 14.5 years, they were 18 when they met. I thought that was very encouraging. The other couple has been together for 5 years. All four of them were very cool people and Kathy and I got to know them more during the next couple of days. I exchanged information with them on Sunday, maybe we will keep in touch.

    K, so after cocktail hour we headed off to a little Italian restaurant that had the best food in the world. The restaurant was very small and the line was out the door, we got there just in time so we only had to wait for 10 minutes, but by the time we left the wait was an hour and a half. The wait was worth it though. After we had dinner we decided to head over to the Castro, the gay district, and explore the bars. We were on the bus at 10:30 and they both asked me if I would mind going home. Of course I minded, we had been out all day and we had not done anything I wanted. So I told them and we went to the bars. We were at the bars and they were just boring people. After a few drinks I agreed to go because I was also very tired. It was close to 12 a.m. and it was 2 a.m. TX time. So we went home and went to bed.

    The next morning I decided I did not want to hang out with them so I was going to go and explore the city on my own. If I heard the David talk about Paris and/or compare San Francisco to Paris one more time I was going to hit him. Or if he said "Reeealy" one more time..I swear....or if he complained about his food being to salty or if he said "uhmm, it's alright in (place of foreign city here)there is a little restaurant that makes the best (place whatever you are eating here)" one more time.....I just don't like the guy. He is so uptight, childish, and self-absorbed that I did not think I could spend another day with him.

    Saturday was a great day. I went to the golden gate bridge and I met this nice Italian straight couple. I then went to Ghiradelli square and bought some chocolate, I went to the market, to Ffisherman's Wharf, and then I went to coit tower.
    I was trying to walk to Coit tower and I got lost. I was heading into a dead-end street so I asked this black lady in her 40's for directions and that just started an immediate friendship. She was the funniest person ever. She was heading to the Safe Way to buy toiler paper for her neighbor who was in her 70's and could not leave the house. She said she would walk with me to the bus stop because it was way to hot to take the bus up there. And she was right, it was hot. After a 10-15 minute walk I headed to coit tower and had an amazing view of the city. After that I went to the Square in front of St Paul and St Peter church because they were having local artist displaying their art. At the square I met six Spaniards and I was chatting with them for a while. They had been in the US for almost a month and had been in Colorado, Vegas, Los Angeles, and were headed to NYC on Sunday. They wanted to go to SF's equivalent of Harlem and Spanish Harlem so I went to explore the city with them. We ended up getting lost and ended up off the maps we had. It was kind of scary, so we decided to turn back around and head to a more familiar place. We ended up in the black side of town and we did some exploring. They did not speak English very well so I had to translate for them. I like them they were a lot of fun.

    After that I headed back to Cocktail hour at the hotel and I sat with the gay guys from Vancouver and just chatted. Kathy joined us later and her brother ended up going to sit with some old couple on the other side. Kathy and I had a great time and we drank way to much. After our drinks David tried to get the bartender, who was a really cool guy, to go with us to dinner because David want to talk to him about the politics in Burma. The guy kept saying no but David kept insisting, it was a little embarrassing. So off we went to a Thai restaurant that David choose. Kathy wasn't feeling good so we spent about 15 minutes in the restroom while she threw up and I held her hair back. When we returned we eat a bit and David is upset because we left him and because Kathy had to much to drink. I only wanted a soup because I wasn't hungry so I had my soup and I tried their food. The soup was pretty good but the food wasn't and Kathy made a comment about it and I agreed. Since David choose the restaurant it upset him and he told me "I am trying to have a good time with my sister but she choose to invite you ..." that was it. I went off on him. I had gone out of my way to make sure they had enough time alone and here he was telling me this crap? We got into an argument and Kathy joined in. It was pretty messy. I ended up leaving the restaurant and heading back to the hotel. I was so upset that I was crying as I got ready to go out to the clubs. I just couldn't believe it. I couldn't' believe it. Before I finished getting ready Kathy and David got back. David went off and Kathy stayed behind and apologized for David and told me that was the reason why her husband didn't want to go along.

    So I went out to the clubs and I met some really interesting people. I met a guy name Wade and he took me to an after hours party and then we went back to his place. Wade is a great looking guy, he is Chinese, 5'9, 31, and he has a really tight body.

    I went back to the hotel at 7:30 a.m. and had breakfast with Kathy and David and then went to bed for about an hour. I hit the town after I woke up but I was not feeling my best since I was very tired. I did not strike up any conversations with strangers that day. That evening we went to go see Beach Blanket Babylon and it was so funny. I had a great time. They went out to dinner afterwards but I did not join then b/c I was tired. I went back to the hotel and I had every intention of going to bed but after packing I decided to call Wade up and join him at a club that was half a block away from the hotel. To make a long story short...I did not return to the hotel until the next morning at 8:30'ish. Great times were had by all.

    Monday I did some shopping before heading to the airport and when we go to the airport there was a flight that was going to be leaving in a few minutes so I decided to find out if I could take that flight instead of the one at 2:30 p.m.. It just so happened they had a few seats available and I was able to leave two hours earlier. Will picked me up at the airport so he got to hear the whole story in person complete with hand gestures, facial expressions, and all of the things that come with my story telling. We got home and Sarah came over and she got to hear it also.

    I included a lot more details about Wade in my story to them so let me just say a few more things about him. I think he deserves at least a paragraph for making this trip special for me......
    Wade is absolutely amazing. He is a great guy and I felt completely comfortable around him, it is as if we had known each other for a long time. I felt like I had a b/f in SF and it reminded me that having a b/f wasn't all that bad. We were walking down the street and he gave me a kiss on the cheeck and held my hand. We had some good pillow talk, he introduced me to his friends, and even checked up on me to make sure I had gotten back to the hotel o.k. He was perfect and I wonder what could have happened if we both lived in the same city. But being the realist that I am, I realize we will probably never see each other again or talk to each other again....so I will think of it fondly for what it was. Kathy asked me what the best part of the trip was and it was definitely seeing the view of SF from his apartment balcony while we held each other. Corny...I know...but true.

    Monday, September 06, 2004

    I am back from SF and I have stories

    I will have to post about my trip later because right now all I want to do is go to sleep. I am very sleep deprived right now.

    Thursday, September 02, 2004

    Proposition - NO MORE Bush and other ramblings

    I was reading a news summary in the Dallas Voice titled Australian gays upset by new marriage law claim island, declare independence. A group of gay people in Australia who were upset on a ban over same-sex-marriage have taken over an uninhabited island in Australia. Their official flag is the rainbow flag (of course) and they will soon start printing pink money.

    After watching the Republican Convention I want to do the same thing. Especially after President Bush's comment about how judges should not impose their personal beliefs on the country. What the fuck is this asshole doing? He is doing the exact same thing, he wants to impose his religions convictions on the rest of the world. I don't agree with him on abortion, I don't agree with him on the war, and I definitely don't agree with him on gay rights.

    I have a proposition, I propose that we stop paying our taxes until we (gay and lesbian community) are treated and given the rights we deserve. Or we go find our own little island and declare independence.

    I think it is going to take something drastic for this president to take notice and recognize we are an important part of this country. I feel like my hands are tied, I wish I could do something to speed this process along. Who knows, maybe with time we will have change. I don't want to wait that long. I will continue to be as active as I can and hope that others do the same thing.

    If you are reading this, I hope you go out to the polls in November and vote for a change. Vote for Kerry.