My birthday is on the 7th of October
I will be 29
I am single
Next year I will be 30
And I will probably still be single.
Update
I just joined match.com.
18 years ago
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3 comments:
Snort! I'm still laughing at this one!
Here's my take. (Ask Dr. kb:)
First of all, who said everyone in this world needed to eventually couple off to be happy? It's one thing to want to be part of a couple, but it's another to feel pressured into being part of one. If a person wants to be part of a couple, who's to say it has to happen on their timescale. When your ready, it will happen. And I'm not talking, when you think you're ready either. I'm talking when you truely are ready. (You can't fool the higher beings in this world like you can fool stupid humans.)
Second, Do you want to be really want to be part of a couple? Answer that honestly. If you want to be part of a couple, there is a lot of compromise and giving up of yourself to make it work. Too many times, I've heard friends long for a relationship to feel their voids of loneliness. Once they get into a relationship they still feel that void and now they are stuck in a relationship that is going nowhere.
Look into yourself to make you happy, only you control your happiness. Enjoy your tight-knit circle of REAL friends, and if someone good comes along, go with the flow, but don't make it your mission, otherwise you're likely to sabotage any potential chance for a healthy relationship. Also, if that happens, don't overthink it. It is what it is.
P.S. match.com is only going to get you perverts, and maye layed. I doubt you'll find anything good out of it other than that. This coming from a girl who's been there, done that!
Being 29 isn't so bad... I don't even remember mine! Enjoy your time now when you're single, and enjoy your time when you're not.
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