Couple Friends

B and I are going through a weird stage in our relationship. We are celebrating our one year anniversary on the 1st of January so we have been together for quite some time now. We are about to end out "everything is about us" stage in our relationship where we don't want to spend time with anyone but ourselves and we are getting ready to enter the "couple friends" stage in our relationship.

The problem is that we don't know any other couples that a) live close by, b) are normal, c)like to have fun and hang out.

Most of the couples we know are either so messed up and on some sort of drug most of the time, they are completely boring, or they just way to fucked up otherwise. So now we have to make new friends.

We are thinking about making a list of single friends we know and hooking them up so we have people to hang out with.

Is that strange? If you are in a relationship, did you go through this stage? How did you deal with it?

Happy New Years

Happy New Years!

Wishing you the best for the coming year!

Work

I don't talk about work to much but I just feel the need to mention this and I figured some of you may find this funny.

I came back to the office today and I found an email from my vp telling everyone at the office that he is to busy to be in the holiday spirit but he is making an effort. So he has made a cash donation in our names to a non-profit organization.

Does anyone else find that funny or is it just me? Do you guys think he actually made a donation or do you think he printed the certificates at home?

I guess I find it funny because B and I were trying to figure out what to get my coworkers and he made the same suggestion but that I should just print them off at home.

Sick

I have been sick for 3 days now. It all started on Christmas day but yesterday was the worse day.

I had fever most of the day and these horrible chills. I was suppose to go back to work today but I couldn't do it. I woke up to get ready and I still wasn't feeling well. As the day progressed I felt better but not by much. I have to go to work tomorrow so I hope I will be all better tomorrow.

Stay warm and keep fighting those nasty viruses.

Happy Holidays!

Happy Holidays everyone!

Wishing you the best this holiday season and in the New Year!

Blogaversary

My blogaversary was two days ago.

I can't believe i have been writting for 4 years now. I stil haven't writte 500 post yet though.

That will happen in the next couple of months. Keep posted.

Bored

I am soooo bored at work today. There is absolutely nobody in the office and there isn't much to do.

There are only so many website I can visit a day and so much celebrity gossip I can tolerate.

What do you do when you are bored at work?

What websites do you check?

Holiday Parties

I love the holidays because everyone has holiday parties and it's a great time to catch up with people you haven't seen in awhile.

Most of the time, there is way to may people at these holiday parties so I feel like I really didn't get to spend any quality time with anyone. Last night, I went to a holiday party at a friends house and he just invited some close friends. There was a total of 6 people which was great.

I got to meet two new people and I caught up with the ones I already knew. It was great.

Everyone should have little gatherings like that.

Christmas Music Part 2

Maybe I should have mentioned that I went out last night and had a bit to much to drink. I was out until 1:30 last night and I could really use some piece and quiet right now.

So please, keep your voices down.

Christmas Music

I know some people love Christmas music, my boyfriend is one of those people. But come on people! Christmas music all the time? What is wrong with you?

I am in the office today and apparently everyone here wants to listen to Christmas music so my co-worker has his speakers up and they are all singing along.

I am not a fan of the music and it has actually put me in a bad mood. Isn't that the opposite of what Christmas music suppose to do?

I would tell them to turn it off but it's 4 against 1. While he is out to lunch I will be over there messing with his speakers.

Another Crazy Deam

I am not sure why I have been having such strange dreams lately. I need to check with a dream dictionary to see what they mean.

Last nights dream involved dragons and dinosaurs. Here is a quick re-cap.

I lived in a dying continent and we were trying to get to a new one but we had to cross waters full of dinosaurs, dragons, and monsters.

I ended up in an orphanage (although I didn't know it until much later) where I was given a magical stone by a someone I was sharing a bed with.

We moved to the new continent and there was a lot of fighting. Everyone was trying to kill me because the stone gave me special powers but I didn't know I had them. I ended up killing a lot of people and I went into hiding.

I then went to the house of the person who gave me the stone and we were talking in bed. By this time the person in bed with me was my boyfriend. Six people broke into the room and were trying to capture me, one of them was his mother (in my dream...not his real one). When they capture me, I was able to become invisible and I took my boyfriend with me we started flying. I was finally able to discover my secret powers.

I kind of know what the last part is all about but I am not sure what the rest is about.

My dream from last night

I had a dream that I had to drive out to a town about 2 hours away to have dinner with some guy who was going to give me money. (Not sure if he owed me money or what)

I decided to invite my boyfriend and my friend and KB with me because I didn't want to go alone so we are off...or so I thought.

It took KB 30 minutes to get ready and my boyfriend was fooling around with his car to get it ready for the trip. We finally get on the road about an hour later. After an hour I hadn't called the guy to tell him that I am going to be late. I want to call him but for some reason I can't.

KB and my boyfriend then turn into my co-workers Richard and Patricia. We are driving and we have to stop because the roads are blocked. We take some side roads and we end up in a village that looks deserted and there are a lot of coyotes/wolves all over the place. One of them is dead and others are climbing down trees or just running around the village. It looks like one of those little European villages. Very cute expect for the wolves.

Richard then gets out of the car and starts to wrestle with two of the wolves (both multi-colored) ties one up. He is trying to tie its snout but I keep telling him that we have to go. We finally leave.

We then end up back somewhere close to home and we still haven't made it to see the guy. Richards becomes my boyfriend again and KB is still Patricia. We are driving a convertible and Patricia jumps out of the car and starts chasing a float because she wants to meet the singers/dancers on the float. I threaten to leave her....and you and I drive off. We somehow end up back at home and I run up the concrete stairs in the front yard. (we had a beautiful home...old but cute). We go inside and I am still not able to talk to the guy. By then it has been several hours since we were suppose to be there.

My sister and her daughters come over. They live down the street from us so they see the car parked in the driveway and just pop over. My niece keeps asking me questions and I am extremely frustrated because we haven't made it and I am going to loose the money so I start screaming and run out of the house towards the street. But now the stairs that lead to the house have duplicated and the street seems much further away.

Once I get closer to the street I just sit down on the stairs and start crying.

Crazy dream.

What do you think it means?

Same Old Dilema

Every year I have a hard time finding something to give my co-workers for Christmas and this year is no exception.

Ideas? Suggestions?

Lunch with the in-laws

We met B's parents in a small town about an hour-and-a-half away from where we live. I thought "Lunch, not a big deal. I can do lunch." But boy was I wrong. His dad is nice but his mom is just not a pleasant person. Throughout the whole lunch she probably said about a hand full of words to me even though I tried to engage her in conversation. I even went as far as complimenting her new hair cut which looks horrible on her. HORRIBLE! I should have told her how horrible it looks, maybe then she would have said something to me.

Lunch was just very uncomfortable.

I am suppose to go with B back home for Christmas and I honestly don't know that I want to do that. I am obviously not welcomed and we are all going to be uncomfortable for 3 days so it might be better to skip the whole thing. B and I talked about it but we really didn't come to any conclusions.

My friend Robert and I were talking about it and I have decided to stop trying to be nice to the women. I even plotted a few evil things I could do to her to piss her off even more. I figured it would kill her if I bought gifts for her husband and her daughter but not for her. Wouldn't that be pure evil? But she deserves it.

I also thought about having the "Listen here you bitch! I am your son's boyfriend and I am not planning on going anywhere so I suggest we start getting along" talk.

Out of the two, I figured I would do the talk first. I would remove the bitch part and the attitude.

It's very frustrating.

Oh Christmast Tree, Oh

The condo is finally fixed and everything is back where it belongs so we decided to go get a Christmas tree. It's a 6-7' real tree from Home Depo. Neither of us has a truck so we went Home Depo and picked it up in B's car and drove with a tree on the roof of the car for about 3 miles. It ghetto-fabulous. And I do have pictures.

We decorated the tree on Sunday and it's starting to look good. We need more ornaments which we will probably just pick up as we go along. We went to Garden Ridge last night and it was so picked over that we only got 4 new ornaments. I am going to try Target during a work "break" and I am going to swing by Pier 1 after work. Once the tree looks good I will post some pictures.

We are also having problems finding a tree topper. All the angels we have seen look cheap and all the stars we have seen are to sparkly. What do you use? Angels or stars?